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MEN'S MINISTRY
Men’s Ministry at PCCC is a new way of looking at oneself as
a godly man. It embodies the vision of where we are trying
to go with all the men. Our major philosophy is to challenge
men to think about who they are in Christ.
Kingdom Service
We believe that all men have a potential for service in the
Kingdom. Our ultimate goal is to challenge men to become
godly husbands, godly fathers, godly supporters of their
pastors, and full-fledged servants of the Lord Jesus.
Spiritual Leaders
We place an emphasis on becoming spiritual leaders in our
homes and families. This emphasis shifts the pendulum from
what our traditional approach to men's ministry has been,
from only getting men involved in ministry activities, to
challenging men to become the spiritual leaders in their
homes and churches. To do this, it is important that men be
engaged in a lifetime of discipleship development and
training. The sad fact is that very few men, including
pastors, have had effective discipling by men who were fully
discipled themselves.
We also seek to equip, motivate, and challenge men who are
fathers to improve their fathering skills and become godly
fathers. Most family problems come from father failure, and
may be neutralized by strong paternal leadership. In the
United States since 1900, fathers have been emotionally
focused on the marketplace instead of the home. While men
have become very competent businessmen, many have made
terrible fathers. With two-income families the norm, not the
exception, children do not receive the character training
and role modeling they need.
It is critical that PCCC Men’s Ministry focus on the
development of fathering. This, as much as any other issue,
requires immediate attention and part of the core philosophy
of our ministry. To achieve this vision for the PCCC Men’s
Ministry, it is vitally important that pastors and lay
leaders pursue ministry to their men in a new and fresh way.
We have identified five building blocks that will contribute
to the accomplishment of this goal:
1. Men's ministry must be seen from a spiritual perspective.
It must be bathed in prayer. It must be considered as much a
part of the work of the Holy Spirit as any other area of
ministry.
2. The second building block must be a balanced emphasis on
being versus doing. In other words, emphasis on what a man
becomes versus what he does.
3. There must be gender-specificity. There is a difference
between how one ministers to men versus how one ministers to
women. Activities targeted at men must be tailored for men.
There must be a goal orientation to these activities and
ministries with a clear sense of achievement evident at
their conclusion.
4. The fourth building block is intentionality. This simply
means that the outcome must be decided upon up front with a
clear vision of what the major purpose is.
5. There must be pastoral involvement. This building block
calls for pastors to become involved with their men,
supporting ministry to their men, and setting the example
for their men.
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